Muslims around the world will soon welcome the holy month of Ramadaan. This time of the year is particularly harder for kids and new fasters who’ve embraced Islam recently. Although young kids are not obliged to fast, many parents encourage their children to go without food and drink for a few hours of the day, and to partake in other religious practices during the month. If you’re one of them, then consider these four ways to make this month more enjoyable for kids.
1. Involve them in prepping ‘koekies’
Kids often want to share what Ramadaan is all about with their non-Muslim friends, teachers, or family members, but don’t know how. Involving them in making and sharing ‘koekies’ (small finger foods and sweet treats) will teach them the value of giving and sharing selflessly. Pack the treats into clear bags and attach a note about Ramadaan with a ribbon.
The kitchen is the perfect environment to stimulate their interest in cooking. Plus, it’s a great opportunity to teach your kids about food traditions and make some happy Ramadaan memories together. This might lead to some chaos and mess, but the experience will benefit them in the long run.
2. Invite their friends over for an iftaar dinner party
Iftaar is a special experience, so consider inviting over non-Muslim friends and family to share in the joy and traditions. Hosting a dinner party can be stressful, but the kids will be none the wiser and will just enjoy the excitement and sharing. So, stick to simple dishes that everyone will love and get the kids involved!
Make cooking feel a bit like playtime. Simple appetisers like meatballs in pita bread are a win. The kids can roll the meat-mix into balls while you chop the veggies. A juice or smoothie made with their favourite fruits (that they pre-chopped) is the perfect way to hydrate and re-energise after fasting!
3. Charity begins at home
Giving to those in need is a fundamental principle in Islam, and an essential part of Ramadaan. Use the month as a chance to explore meaningful discussions with your kids. Centre the talk around what it means to help others, as well as give back. Create a charity jar to get the kids excited about making donations and help them to understand where the money will go and why. Every time your kids do a little good deed – like setting the table for Iftaar, making up their beds in the morning or even fasting all day – share some rands with them to add to the jar. It can feel rewarding to them to see the jar slowly fill up and be part of giving back to those in need.
4. Do Ramadaan-themed activities
This is the chance to teach Islamic lessons, while spending some quality time together – a real Ramadaan bonus! Take the time to use play to communicate important lessons. Use colouring books and games to tell stories and give your kids a deeper understanding of the meaning and reasoning behind Ramadaan. And read them Islamic children’s books before bed every day to give them sweet Ramadaan dreams.
